Hi McBirdie, I am after some advice (sexually).  I was with a bloke last week who was uncircumsized and this was like the first time for me.

 
He wants to see me and has asked me to give him a good sucking but the thing is I’m quite nervous and scared of what to do because all the other men I have been with have been circumsized! 

 
Please help!

New to This

Dear New,

Don’t panic.  You can, in fact, feel quite jolly–in a lot of ways, an uncircumsized penis is every woman’s (or gay man’s) friend.   In practical terms, there isn’t much difference.  What feels good for one is likely to feel good for another.  For a lot of men, getting aroused is enough to push the skin back–you won’t even notice the difference, other than a wee bit in appearance.  If it isn’t, then sliding your hand down the shaft gently will pull the skin back from the head.  Then it’s all systems go as usual as to what you do orally.

The bonus comes when your hand gets into the action.  When you slide your hand up and down the shaft of a circumsized man, you have to be very careful to be lubed enough to allow for lots of slippiness.  With an uncircumsized man, though, you can use the skin itself.  Rather than sliding across the surface, you can pull the skin up and down.  Like a…um…stocking.  That you…pull on and off repeatedly.  Except don’t pull it off.  He won’t like that.  

*cough*

Sorry.  I got thrown by my own imagery there.  The point is, play around.  You’ll get used to the change and he’ll enjoy the playing.  There is always something to be enjoyed with a new penis.  Just relax and enjoy.

Have fun,

P.S.  Did he really say he wanted “a good sucking”?  Oh, you crazy kids.